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Vasthu column by Melizarani
Vasthu Sastra doesn't just deal with buildings and compass directions.
It also has much to say about human emotions and behaviours.
Harmonious marital relationship, for instance, has a special place in
Vasthu.
Indeed, such topics are not treated as taboo in Indian tradition but as
essential virtues for a blissfully paired couple.
Arranging the bedroom according to Vasthu principles so that people in it
are in harmony with the flow of positive energy enhances love and
romance.
If you have not paid attention to romance in your life, why not prepare
your home for the most romantic day of the year this month on February
14, Valentine's Day, and renew your bond?
Indeed, upholding and reaffirming the sacredness of the bedroom is
important because many cases of misunderstanding between couples
originate there.
A couple's bedroom should be in the master's quadrant, which is also the
romance quadrant: the south-west or south.
Avoid the north-east, the spiritual quadrant, for having sex in this area
can have disastrous effects on the couple.
The bedroom should be rectangular or square in shape; avoid irregular
shapes, as energy will not be able to flow easily.
The bed should have a headboard, and it should be placed a few inches away
from the wall to allow air circulation behind it.
If possible, the room's floor should be slightly higher than floors in the
rest of the house.
When sleeping, the couple should face east or west, and they should not
sleep under a beam because it can result in them waking up feeling
fatigued; it can also affect their health and marriage.
The woman should sleep on the left side of the bed; when getting out of
bed, both the man and woman should place the right foot on the floor
first.
The woman should then make an effort to look at herself in the mirror with
a smile on her face to attract positive energy.
To enhance your love life, create a pleasant ambiance by removing all
clutter, especially from under the bed, and keep the place clean.
Make the bed before and after you sleep in it. To add attractiveness,
arrange colourful pillows and blankets neatly, and never leave the bed
crumpled.
Hang recent photographs of anniversary celebrations or of the family on
the west wall, facing east.
Do not place photographs of people who have died, saints or spiritual gurus in the bedroom. Remove old or faded photographs or broken frames.
Discard anything that reminds you of past relationships, like clothes,
photographs or gifts, as they would not benefit your present
relationship.
Cleanse the space by burning some incense or scented oils or candles (use
red candles) to remove stagnated energy.
This should be done at sunrise and sunset. Fragrances could also be used
to give an aphrodisiac effect and improve closeness.
Use soft, pastel colours on the walls to create intimacy. Avoid grey,
black and bright yellow, which are associated with depression and
tension.
Use dim or warm lights in the bedroom as such lighting reduces stress.
Avoid florescent lights - they are terribly unromantic, not to mention
unflattering!
Do not bring your work and worries into the bedroom; it should be the
place in which you can relax totally and focus on your spouse.
To help the relaxation process, play soothing or soft tunes to help create
a mood of togetherness and build affection.
Do not keep dustbins, shoes, or store dirty cloths in the bedroom as they
emit bad energy. Fresh flowers are encouraged, but avoid artificial or
dried flowers and thorny indoor plants as they have a negative aura that
would have an unfavourable effect on the couple's well-being.
If there is a faulty fan or noisy air-conditioner, repair them immediately
as such sounds are irritating and can cause strain.
Also, repair or oil the bed's joints if they creak or are shaky. Do not
use a metal bed as it can make a couple restless.
Generally, make an effort to have at least one meal a day with your
spouse.
Couples should remember that the time they spend together is the best time
of their life, and they should cherish every moment.
Men in particular, have to remember not to ignore your wives as you grow
old with them - for love is eternal and undying!
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